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Nearly two weeks after they got married, Joyce Ching and Kevin Alimon uploaded a Q & A vlog answering their fans' most pressing questions.

Fans asked Joyce for tips on how to plan to for a wedding.

She answered, “For me kailangan mong malaman kung ano yung gusto mong makita o ma-feel sa wedding mo, 'tapos dun ka mag-start.

"Ano 'yung vina-value mo the most, ano magpapasaya sa'yo?”

LOOK: Joyce Ching marries non-showbiz boyfriend Kevin Alimon

The couple became more pensive when a fan asked, “How did you move on from being broken?”

For Joyce, taking things in stride and not focusing on the thought of moving on worked best for her.

She said, “Sa'kin talaga ang pinaka-nag-work is hindi ako masyado nag-isip at hindi ko masyado prinessure sarili ko na mag-move on.

"Kailangan mo matutunan na 'wag isipin na nag-mu-move on ka. Kasi parang dini-declare mo rin sa sarili mo na hindi ka pa nakaka-move on.

“Mas nag-let go lang ako sa mga bagay, hindi ko siya hinanap.

"After nung last relationship ko, alam ko rin sa sarili ko na hindi pa ako ready.

"'Tapos nung na-feel ko na ready na ako, gusto ko na, I started praying for it.

"Siguro 'yung preparation para sa sarili hindi siya dapat puro about thinking of the other person, or thinking for other
people, more of praying for yourself on how you can best serve the other person or how you can be the best person for the other person.”

Joyce added in hindsight, “The more na dinidiin mo na you're broken, mas na-aabsorb mong broken.”

For Kevin, putting God as the center of one's life helps put things in perspective.

"“I guess it's because of God's grace, you let God heal you and move you to another season.

"Just allow God to move in your heart. You're going to be prepared by God's grace talaga," he said.

Joyce Ching shows her first week of marriage in latest vlog