Jodi Sta. Maria to people who have been hurt: 'Acknowledge it'
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Jodi Sta. Maria reminds her followers to carefully choose their battles. Watch here:
Jodi Sta. Maria gets serious on one of her latest TikTok videos to talk to people who might have been hurt.
The Unbreak My Heart star stressed the importance of acknowledging the pain when hurt by other people.
She said, "We live in a broken world filled with broken people. Kapag may nakapanakit sa'yo, ang una mong gawin, i-acknowledge mo na nasaktan ka. Hindi mo kailangan mag-pretend na ok lang 'yung nangyari.
Then, she talked about forgiveness, "Pangalawa, kung posible, sabihan mo yung tao na nasaktan ka niya. Pangatlo, patawarin mo kahit hindi humihingi ng tawad sa 'yo,"
She further stressed, “Contrary to what other think, na kapag pinatawad mo, ibig sabihin na you're letting that person off the hook or mini-minimize yung pain na ginawa sa ýo or na-invalidate yung experience mo, hindi ganun yun. Pinapatawad mo because you deserve peace.”
The actress also mentioned how important it is for each person to choose their battles.
"I-assess mo kung may kailangan kang gawin sa situation or if it's better na hayaan mo na lang," she said.
In the, Jodi reminded her followers, “Tandaan, hindi natin kontrolado ang actions ng ibang tao pero kontrolado natin kung paano tayo magre-respond sa ating situation.”
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Fans meanwhile, thanked the actress for her advice in the comment section, with some of them expressing how they needed the advice.
On the other hand, some of her followers mentioned how it's not easy for them to forgive, but that they will try anyway.
Meanwhile, one of the netizens asked in the comment section whether the pain they sometimes feel is still valid, to which the actress answered, “Yes. Healing isn't linear . All feelings are valid.”
Watch the full video here:
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