3 Courting No-Nos from Benjamin Alves
Published On: August 29, 2014, 04:49 PM
Updated On: March 14, 2020, 05:51 PM
By AL KENDRICK NOGUERA
Last time, nag-share si Kapuso actor Benjamin Alves ng mga paraan para maka-move on sa iyong ex. Ngayon naman, ituturo niya ang tamang paraan ng panliligaw.
“Grabeng manligaw si Joemer on how he got Beth. I'm not like that. Hindi ko kaya 'yon, I won't have the guts. Mahiyain ako eh,” kuwento ni Benjamin referring to his Dading role.
Dahil likas na mahiyain si Benjamin, mayroon daw siyang sariling paraan para makuha ang 'oo' ng babaeng gusto niya. Kaya mga Kapuso, learn courting the Benjamin Alves way.
No getting-to-know texts
“Ayoko ng text, pangit ang text. So guys, you know, if there's anything you could do, huwag ninyong idaan sa text,” pahayag ni Benjamin.
Dagdag pa niya, “That's one way to set a date pero 'yung pag-uusapan ninyo, to get to know the girl, it's probably better in person.”
Para raw kasi kay Benjamin, mayroong ibang implication ang getting-to-know stage kapag hindi face-to-face ang sitwasyon. Aniya, “'Yung text sayang eh, that shows na hindi ka seryoso sa babae. But if you are, give her a time, commit to a time, commit to an hour to get to know her.”
No dating alone
“Go out on a movie with friends. Para hindi kayo lang dalawa,” ani Benj.
Para kay Benjamin, mas makilala mo ‘yung ka-date mo kapag walang awkward moments sa inyong dalawa. Mas lalabas daw kasi ang tunay na kulay ng nililigawan mo kapag nariyan ang friends niya dahil mas comfortable siya.
“It’s better to show who you are, right from the get go. It’s better to see her for who she is from the get go,” paliwanag ng Dading heartthrob.
No to a dinner date
“Ang hirap kasi na serious ka na first date pa lang eh. Ang pangit kasi ng ganoon eh. [It's] the first time that you're gonna meet her, tapos serious na? So, I don't think I'm that type,” saad ni Benjamin.
Dagdag niya, “It does not have to be a date. You can go running or biking. So usually it must be something fun. It won't be like a dinner date.”
Inamin ni Benjamin na hindi pa siya nakaranas ng isang dinner date. Aniya, “Weird eh. Never. I haven't done that. You won't be who you really are.”
Last time, nag-share si Kapuso actor Benjamin Alves ng mga paraan para maka-move on sa iyong ex. Ngayon naman, ituturo niya ang tamang paraan ng panliligaw.
“Grabeng manligaw si Joemer on how he got Beth. I'm not like that. Hindi ko kaya 'yon, I won't have the guts. Mahiyain ako eh,” kuwento ni Benjamin referring to his Dading role.
Dahil likas na mahiyain si Benjamin, mayroon daw siyang sariling paraan para makuha ang 'oo' ng babaeng gusto niya. Kaya mga Kapuso, learn courting the Benjamin Alves way.
No getting-to-know texts
“Ayoko ng text, pangit ang text. So guys, you know, if there's anything you could do, huwag ninyong idaan sa text,” pahayag ni Benjamin.
Dagdag pa niya, “That's one way to set a date pero 'yung pag-uusapan ninyo, to get to know the girl, it's probably better in person.”
Para raw kasi kay Benjamin, mayroong ibang implication ang getting-to-know stage kapag hindi face-to-face ang sitwasyon. Aniya, “'Yung text sayang eh, that shows na hindi ka seryoso sa babae. But if you are, give her a time, commit to a time, commit to an hour to get to know her.”
No dating alone
“Go out on a movie with friends. Para hindi kayo lang dalawa,” ani Benj.
Para kay Benjamin, mas makilala mo ‘yung ka-date mo kapag walang awkward moments sa inyong dalawa. Mas lalabas daw kasi ang tunay na kulay ng nililigawan mo kapag nariyan ang friends niya dahil mas comfortable siya.
“It’s better to show who you are, right from the get go. It’s better to see her for who she is from the get go,” paliwanag ng Dading heartthrob.
No to a dinner date
“Ang hirap kasi na serious ka na first date pa lang eh. Ang pangit kasi ng ganoon eh. [It's] the first time that you're gonna meet her, tapos serious na? So, I don't think I'm that type,” saad ni Benjamin.
Dagdag niya, “It does not have to be a date. You can go running or biking. So usually it must be something fun. It won't be like a dinner date.”
Inamin ni Benjamin na hindi pa siya nakaranas ng isang dinner date. Aniya, “Weird eh. Never. I haven't done that. You won't be who you really are.”