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Nico Bolzico is known for many things.

Aside from being the better half of Kapuso actress Solenn Heussaff, the Argentinian businessman is famous for being candid when it comes to giving love advice to all the members of his so-called #BulliedHusbandsClub.

Here, we've collated a few tips from Nico Bolzico's Handbook.

Use your #MarryMiles

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Why did I do this? #MarryMiles! What are #MarryMiles? #MarryMiles is an implicit currency used in every relationship, even if the partners are not aware of. For example, you are about to watch a movie and your #Wifezilla tells you “Ït is my turn to choose the movie”, this means you spent your #MarryMiles in the last movie you watched, for sure you made her watch Avengers or something like that, so now, sit back and enjoy Pitch Perfect (that I love by the way!). Imaging your friends are planning to spend the weekend hiking a mountain, and of course this requires permission from #Wifezilla. If you received this piece of information with enough anticipation, your #MarryMiles earnings starts, basically you do things that you should do every day for your #Wifezilla in an extra special way. It is not about doing one sweet thing, but a continuity of sweet actions, exactly how a relationship should be. Examples: 1- Making the bed: you must make the bed every day, but in this occasion maybe drop some flowers on top. 2- For your next usual date, cook her favorite dinner (don't go out for dinner): surprise her when she gets home! If you don't know how to cook the #BulliedHusbandClub can help you sending a qualified member to your house (@Erwan of course). 3- Go shopping with her: be careful here because this can backfire easily. In my case, when I want to support #Wifezilla in her shopping day, I end up being a sandbag; always feeling tired, bored and looking for every opportunity to sit down, one time I sat down on the escalator. That won't work. Basically, earning #MarryMiles is a way of making your relationship better! Something extremely important to highlight, our #Wifezillas are like the Central Bank, they are the ones printing the currency, so if by any change they decided that #MarryMiles are not enough or simply they don't want to accept them, then #Patay, you stay home and tell your friends next time! Also, we are the only ones that need the #MarryMiles, our ladies can do whatever whenever, I dare you to tell them the opposite! For more information on #MarryMiles there is a whole chapter on the #BulliedHusdbandClub Hand Book.

A post shared by Nico Bolzico (@nicobolzico) on Mar 7, 2019 at 4:45pm PST

According to Nico, #MarryMiles is an implicit currency that must be used in every relationship. To put it simply, it's about adding an extra something to your usual routine that will earn you extra brownie points to your significant other. Yes, women keep tabs.

Valentine's Day is every couple's anniversary

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5 Easy Steps to have a successful Valentines from the #BulliedHusbandClub Hand Book 1- Do not forget about Valentines. 14 of Feb is everyone's Anniversary! Forgetting it can cause similar damages as forgetting her Birthday, Anniversary, Monthversary or Dayversary. Check with your wifezillla what is the correct unit to measure the celebration of your time together. 2- Be Creative: flowers, chocolates or teddy bears are ok, but you dont want your wifezilla to have the following conversation with a fellow wifezilla: W1: "What did you get for Valentines" - W2: "Chocolates, and you?" - W1: "Oh, me too" ... Followed by an extense conversation on how their husbands/boyfriends are not putting enough effort anymore; those type of conversations escalate quickly leading to the following conversation at home: #BHCMember - "Hi Bebu, how are you?" - W: "OK" *with upset face* - BHCM: "Are you upset?" - W: "No!" *Still upset face* - BHCM "What happened bebu?" - W1: "You know exactly what happened" *storms out*; we will have a full explanation on how to deal with these conversations in a different post, but during Valentines that can be avoided by being a bit creative! A collage of pictures of both of you together never fails! 3- Time over material: Spending quality time together is always the best gift. A special date with no phones is always a great idea! 4- Be yourself, authenticity is romantic: the fact that is Valentine doesn't mean you should become someone else, do something special but with your personal touch! 5- If you realize that your wifezilla disagrees with the points above, ignore all of them and go with what she believes, wants or says! This last point overrules points 1 to 4. Bonus Track: Maybe a quick call to the in-laws to wish them Happy Valentines, can also add some #MarryMiles (we will also explain the use of #MarryMiles in a separate post). #HappyValentinesEveryone #SosBolzIsHavingANoPhoneDateTonight #IfIMakeItOnTimeFromCDO

A post shared by Nico Bolzico (@nicobolzico) on Feb 13, 2019 at 10:41pm PST

Valentine's Day may feel like a marketing ploy but for Nico, it's a unit to measure the celebration of your time together as a couple. After all, it's not just about the day itself but a measure of truly showing your love even if it means having to deal with traffic en route to the restaurant you've reserved for.

Build trust

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As you all know my wife is very beautiful, probably the most beautiful girl in the world, that is why she has so many guys proposing to her all the time. The picture shows her reaction every time someone proposes. Look again, she is not showing the middle finger! In line with that, I think it is a good opportunity to discuss how we feel when our Wifezillas talk to another guy. This is always a tricky situation and the way we react can be very critical for the future of our relationship and physical health. Before meeting @Solenn, I used to get very jealous; I always assumed that any guy talking to my girlfriend was trying to hit on her, I didn't believe in friendship between opposite sexes. But I was wrong, 1 million times wrong! Thinking that way only leads to unfounded fights, drama and degradation of the relationship. The truth (The #BolzTruth) is, if our relationship is based in trust and respect, we shouldn't be worry about it, and we should be fine with our ladies talking to other guys; except if that other guy is @erwan, then you should be worry, too much sexyness there, irresistible for any human being. I understand that we see our wives as the most beautiful and precious person in our life (if you think different, then go check rule #254 of the #BulliedHusbandClub hand book) and might be difficult seeing them talking to another guy; but it is ok, they should be able have male friends, as we should be able to have female friends (If your #Wifezilla thinks differently then she is right, you shouldn't be able to have female friends). Summarizing, if you really love her, then: trust her, give her the freedom she deserves and let her be; this way you will see your relationship getting stronger every day! Disclaimer: as usual, these are my words based on what I believed and experienced, as usual I can be wrong; and, if by any means, what I write, say or even think, is not in line with my wife opinion, then my wife opinion should predominate and everything else was wrong, even if that means contradicting, math, physics, gravity, supreme justice or the Pope, she is right; and that my friends, is the Rule #560 of the #BulliedHusdbandsClub hand book.

A post shared by Nico Bolzico (@nicobolzico) on Feb 12, 2019 at 5:45pm PST

This shouldn't come off as a surprise. But, in case you need a reminder: every strong relationship is based on trust and respect.

Let her pursue her dreams

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Today we saw each other again after spending 3 weeks apart, and most important, Christmas and New Year. A lot of people asked us why. The truth is that we are so sure we will spend the rest of our lives together, that be apart for three weeks is nothing. My family is in Argentina (that is also Solenn's family now) and one condition to move away from home is that I spend Christmas there every year. Solenn normally spends Christmas with her family (that is also my family) and then she meets me in Argentina. This year, because of her career she had to stay and that is ok. We give each other space and we miss each other so much, that is why we enjoy our time together even more, and all that is based on hard rock-solid petrified marble stone wolverine claws back silver strength trust relationship! So, some advice from #ELBolzico: • Don't be afraid to give each other space or to miss each other; • Let her follow their careers • Let her go out with friends; • We don't have to be part of everything she does; • Be always supportive and proud of what she does! Don't try to cut their wings, let them fly (also because otherwise they will probably cut your bolz). I have no credentials to give any of those advices, but this is my IG and I post whatever I want, always pre-approved but my wife, but whatever I want that is in line with her! #NoWingsNoBolz #BulliedHusbandsClub #PostApprovedByWifezilla #IsPocholaTheCutestCreatureOnEarth? 📷: @allen__life

A post shared by Nico Bolzico (@nicobolzico) on Jan 12, 2019 at 10:39pm PST

Long distance relationships may be hard, but if it means allowing your girlfriend or wife to pursue her dreams, let her. Being supportive of one's achievements means you're proud of all her hard work and you're not intimidated even if she has a PhD title at the end of her surname.

Take your relationship one step at a time

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Bebuuuuuuu! 2 years since we offficialized what we have been building for 7! Life is so full of challenges and disappointments, but it is the person you choose to be with that makes all those a journey! We made many mistakes and we are so different in so many aspects, but we are ONE when we are together and that's all that matters! I never believed I could love someone so much or becoming so sweet (I am re reading what I just wrote and I can't believe how sweet I am, like super sweet) Our marriage is far from being perfect but it is always fun and full of love! As someone once said: "If you like watermelons learn to deal with the seeds" ... Not sure who said that, pretty sure it was me! Also not sure if it makes sense 🤔 but I am sure that #forevermakessense (wink wink). Te amo @solenn. Pretty much our marriage in a picture ☝

A post shared by Nico Bolzico (@nicobolzico) on May 20, 2018 at 6:26pm PDT

Life isn't a race and it's full of ups and downs. But as Nico explains, “...it is the person you choose to be with that makes all those a journey.” Learn to appreciate all the times you spent together - whether big or small.