“If you’re playing for 4 years and sharing your pillow with your husband, if you can hide your feelings and you’re acting like you love him, even if you change your religion then, you’re showing that you love this person. After that, you come out on television saying ‘It’s all because of my children?’… That’s why I said she was a really good actress. She could get awards.”
“I told Ruffa I want to get a divorce. This is the interesting side of this, if I am guilty, why am I asking for divorce? If I am the wife beater, why am I asking for the divorce? People have to think about this first.”
“The second one, is this her game? Her mom’s game? Or her friends’ game? There will be no winners. She will not win. I will not win either.”
“As for my children, I love them more than everything. The reason I am still breathing, the reason I’m still fighting for life is Ruffa and our children. My children are important but I am not planning to take my children or separate them from their mom…. If their mom will raise them well, no problem… I don’t know. Actually, the yayas are taking care of my children…. ”
“I don’t want Ruffa anymore. Until today, I tried to get my wife back but she was always giving me false hope.”
“I am getting so shamed to my name. And, I’m getting pissed off now.”
“As of 3 days ago, everything’s finished. Everything has an end. Whatever the reason is, who’s right or who’s wrong, it doesn’t matter. I can accept everything but I cannot accept people’s disrespect. And she was disrespectful to me.”
“I think I need a few weeks or a few days till my anger passes. Maybe in a few weeks I will be next to another person, and she (Ruffa) will just be a memory in my mind and not a nice memory.”
“I want to give one last message to Ruffa. May I remind her, for the people watching her on TV, the poor people, be a good example for them, be a good example for your children. You do not have a good reputation. But, everybody makes mistakes. The important one, do not make the same mistake again…. She’s now a Christian… then be a good Christian…. This is my message for her. Good luck. This is the end of the game. No winners.”
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