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Sofia Trazona has opened up about her personal experiences, family dynamics, and past challenges, addressing issues surrounding her relationship with her mother, Izzy Trazona-Aragon, and stepfather Alvin Aragon.

In a candid conversation with Ogie Diaz, she offered clarity on misconceptions, recounted difficult moments, and shared how faith and resilience have guided her journey.

Growing up in the public eye has not been easy for Sofia, who often finds herself balancing her own experiences while also protecting her mother from scrutiny. She admits that reading online comments about her family can be painful, but she remains committed to defending and supporting her mother at all costs.

"Una syempre nasasaktan ako for my mom kasi parang kahit na may mga lumabas kami na issue kahit gusto kong magsalita du'n sa mga issue na lumabas sa amin kailangan protektahan ko pa din siya at the end of the day and mahal na mahal ko po kasi talaga yung nanay ko kahit hindi kami nagkikita na sobrang mahal na mahal ko siya so sobrang nasasaktan po talaga ako pagka nakakabasa po ng mga comments na minsan hindi naman totoo."

Despite the challenges, Sofia's love for her mother remains strong. She also clarified misconceptions about her mother being overly religious. She explained that prayer and seeking guidance are part of her mother's approach to decision-making, especially when facing important life events.

"May mga ano po kasi na jina-judge na sila because of religion lalo si mama and kung paano siya mag-decide and ayun nga po na-share nila doun sa isang interview na pagka bago sila sumalang sa stage or kung ano mang gawin nila, nagpe-pray sila, nanghihingi sila ng guidance kung tama ba yung gagawin nila. Totoo po talaga 'yun. Ganon po talaga si mama na talagang kahit anong gawin niya nag-a-ask po talaga siya ng guidance ganon."

She emphasized that while this practice may be misunderstood by outsiders, it reflects her mother's values and commitment to making thoughtful choices. Sofia respects this approach, noting that as long as actions are responsible, she supports her mother's way of living.

"Ah ganun po kasi si mama. Ako naman as long as talagang wala namang mali sa gagawin mo sa side ko po go for it. Wala kang matatapakang tao sige lang walang problema."

As Sofia grew older, the realities of family dynamics and financial struggles influenced a difficult decision that led her to leave home. She explained that while the choice may appear abrupt to outsiders, it was motivated by concern for her mother and a desire to navigate her own responsibilities independently.

"Hindi ko na po kasi gusto 'yung family dynamic na kasanayan ko. And 'pag nakikita ko po na financially struggling si mama, nasasaktan po ako ng sobra."

Sofia noted that her mother was already managing significant responsibilities, including raising her younger siblings and supporting Sofia's education. Moving out became a way for her to handle her own life while easing some of the household pressure.

"Kaya po ako umalis... May two kids na din po kasi siya nung that time nung iniwan ko siya... Nakikita ko po talaga na nahihirapan siya... Pero I decided na lang po to move out. Doon na lang po ako sa ano, poder po ako ni papa."

Though initially met with some disappointment, her mother ultimately supported her during milestones like graduations and recognition events.

"Nung una po nagtampo siya pero while nasa Quezon naman po ako 'pag meron akong mga special events, recognition day, graduation day, siya po talaga 'yung pumupunta para magsabit sa akin ng medal."

Sofia's family dynamic shifted further with the introduction of Alvin Aragon. She recalled the initial adjustment period, acknowledging the surprise of having a father figure in the household and learning to navigate new routines.

"Nung una po syempre nanibago dahil ano eh, may addition sa family na first time namin makakasama sa bahay."

She reflected on growing up mainly around women, noting that the presence of a male figure was unfamiliar but gradually became part of her life.

"So nanibago lang po talaga ako, 'yung may nakikita akong lalaki sa bahay, kasi puro babae lang po 'yung nakikita ko dati, kasi lola ko si mama at saka yung tita ko, kapatid po ni mama."

In the interview, Sofia candidly addressed the incident that drew public attention. She clarified that it happened only once, during a stressful period in her family's life, and never occurred again.

"One time lang naman. Pero doon po ako na-shock kasi never din po akong na-hit ng parents ko... Isang beses lang naman po siya nangyari. Yes. And ano din po hindi na din po naulit after."

At the time, Sofia was around 12 years old, navigating both academic responsibilities and a temporary relocation due to financial constraints.

"Grade 7 po ako non... napalayas po kami ng bahay sa Mandaluyong... napilitan kaming lumipat sa bahay po ng lola ko sa Cavite."

She recalled that while the incident was jarring, she understood the concern behind it, especially as her stepfather later apologized.

"Nangingi naman po siya ng sorry... siguro sa sobrang pagod parang bihira na lang din 'yung update na mabigay ko sa kanila."

Sofia also addressed public criticism regarding her identity and faith, asserting that ultimate judgment belongs only to God.

"Ako I believe talaga na I am only answerable to God alone. Siya lang ang pwedeng mag-judge sa akin. And if 'yung ibang tao, i-ja-judge ako, I wouldn't take it personally. Kasi siya lang ang pwedeng mang-judge sa akin. And the word of God doesn't condemn people, kasi mahal nga tayo ng Diyos eh, bakit niya tayo iko-condemn. Talagang tatanggapin niya tayo. Tinanggap niya nga tayo ng makasalanan eh, what more pa na naniniwala tayo sa kanya. And I have a personal relationship with God."

Reflecting on her youth, Sofia shared that understanding her identity was not a matter of choice but a gradual realization.

"Growing up po talaga talagang nililihis na ako du'n sa path na yun talaga pero habang nililihis ramdam ko po talaga... it's not a choice eh, yung pagiging bading, hindi siya choice eh, talagang nasa loob talaga yun eh."

Her story highlights the importance of self-acceptance and the challenges of navigating identity in a society that can be quick to judge.

Despite past struggles, Sofia has worked to maintain trust and open communication with her mother. She consistently reassures her that she is living responsibly and making safe choices.

"Ang lagi ko lang po kasi talagang sinasabi kay mama is, 'Kilala mo ako na hindi ako gagawa ng ikakasama ko. Just believe in me.'"

Sofia believes that her mother is proud of her, especially after positive conversations and shared understanding about her work and personal life.

"I think she's proud of me," she said.

Recently, Sofia also shared her support for her mother's participation in the SexBomb Reunion Concert. Seeing her mother perform and express her passion firsthand was an emotional moment.

"Sinabi ko na super proud ako sa kanya... nung nakita ko din po kasi siya sa stage naiyak din po ako. Alam ko po na gusto niya 'yun."

Sofia Trazona's story reflects her journey through family challenges and personal growth, showing how she has handled difficult situations with resilience and thoughtfulness.

Sofia Trazona is Izzy's child with former partner Michael Navarro.

Watch the interview here: