Dating red flags at first blush

Going on a date this new year may be magical, but it could turn grim if he or she is a walking red flag.  Dating red flags are warning signs that often lead to heartaches.  While it is important to keep an open mind when dating, you should spot these deal breakers before taking the leap to avoid a toxic relationship.

Love bombing
Being too extra on compliments and attention is called love bombing.  It is very flattering to be showered with praise. When your date tells you, however, that you are the best thing since sliced bread or get overly excited about every little thing you do, you need to step back.  It could be plain lip service to get you into a relationship pronto. Without any real foundation, your date’s love may be a complete dud.

Tech junkie
You are out on a date, but your romantic interest just can’t stop checking his or her social media---it’s game over. People deserve 100% uninterrupted attention. Forming a connection will be difficult if your date is too attached to his or her gadgets.  If your love language is quality time like long walks, watching the sunset, or star gazing, save yourself the trouble. Screen time addiction is a habit that is hard to kick.  Your partner should listen to you, and be present for you.

Attitude check
If your date berates the service crew, complains about everything, or enjoys bad-mouthing people, make a beeline for the exit, fast! This reflects how he or she will treat you down the road. The same goes for dates full of pessimism.  So much energy will be wasted trying to appease or pacify them.  Cross them off the list for your own good. An ideal date respects people and is sensitive to their match’s well-being.

Showing up shabby
Casual dressing is fine for a date, but showing up looking shabby and with zero care about hygiene is a face-palm moment. If your date claims he or she is going for the authentic self, all the more you need to think twice. A person can still be themselves in kempt and casual clothes. 

Similarly, as a dating partner, you should exert a little effort, too.  Prep for the date by choosing a simple outfit and boosting your skin care. As they say, your skin is your best accessory. Watch the video below to see some dating AND skincare red flags you might want to avoid:

Just remember to check if your skin care products still work for you. If your whitening soap involves sting and hapdi or burning pain, these are skin care red flags. Instant and effective whitening should not be “tiis ganda” (sacrifice for beauty).  Look for green flags in skincare.

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