Bea Alonzo to cheaters: ‘You cannot play with anybody’s heart’

Bea Alonzo has a message for cheaters and those who have been cheated on.

In an interview on Small Laude's vlog, Small asked Bea for her advice for people in that situation.

For cheaters, Bea said, "You cannot play with anybody's heart. You really have to stop. I mean, minsan, akalain mo na parang, ‘You can just wing it—okay lang 'yan. She will be able to move on.’"

"But what you don’t realize is that you can leave a scar to that person. Minsan, hindi mo alam what it does to that person na minsan, 'yung napag-cheatan mo, hindi mo alam na nag-iiwan 'yun ng bakas na hindi na niya makikilala ‘yung sarili niya in the end,” she added.

“So, it's really something that is very serious, and you really have to take it seriously. And if you’re not happy with that person, then, you can always find a way to end it properly and respectfully,” she said.

To those who have been cheated on, Bea said, "It will get better. You just have to take it one day at a time."

"It may seem like right now, it’s the end of the world. You’re in so much pain. But I'm telling you, it will be better,” she added.

She also shared that she has been cheated on "a lot of times but by only one person." She did not name the person.

In between some of the cheating questions, Bea said, "Nakakatawa, ganito pa rin narrative ng buhay ko."

When asked what advice she would give in the case of a friend's betrayal, Bea said, "Just take the lessons that you've learned, and then, move on with your life because along the way, may ma-meet ka rin naman ng mga mas loyal."

Referring to Small's question on a friend's betrayal, Bea added, "Personally, nagbibigay ako ng second chance but pag napaso nako, di nako bumabalik."

Bea also discussed trust issues and if her experience affects her relationship with current boyfriend Dominic Roque.

“If I’m going to be totally honest with you, at first, 'yung kay Dom, we dated for more than a year. Walang label because I was too afraid to fall in love again, or to commit to somebody na alam ko posible ring saktan ako eventually. So, yes, may trust issues ako but then, I’m working on it. Every day, Dom proves me wrong. Love is worth fighting for,” she said.

“Simula noong naging kami, hindi pa kami nag-break. Pero muntik kami mag-break—hindi lang natuloy. Actually, bilib din ako sa kanya because he always wants to really make it work," she said, adding, "There are parts of the relationship that can be worked out and these are the things that can make you better as a couple.”

When asked if she is ready to get married and have kids, she said, "We have our own timeline."

She acknowledged that she's in her 30s, but she also added that just because a lot of people her age are getting married, she doesn't feel the need to be getting married, too.

"I'm very happy with Dom," she added.

When Small asked her if Dom is the one, Bea said, "Sana."

Bea confirmed her relationship with Dom in August 2021.

On "Fast Talk with Boy Abunda" on GMA, Bea previously shared that she couldn't be friends with ex Gerald Anderson because she "cannot trust" him.

Bea is set to star on the GMA Network-Viu Philippines series, "Love Before Sunrise," with Dennis Trillo. — Kimberly Tsao/BM, GMA Integrated News