Bea Alonzo on relationships: 'Flirting is already cheating'

Bea Alonzo firmly believes that when you are in a relationship even flirting is already a form of cheating.

In a “Girl Talk” episode of her YouTube channel, the Kapuso actress was asked on Instagram if it’s okay that their partner flirts with their girl friends. 

To which, Bea answered: “Syempre hindi. For me, flirting is already cheating, a window to cheat. ‘Pag nag flirt tapos ‘pag bumigay, edi affair na ‘yon. I think you should stand your ground.”

Bea also said it would be better for them to talk to their partner about whatever is causing them to worry.

“Tell your boyfriend, ‘You know, this isn’t okay.’ Let the person know that you have these boundaries that they cannot cross. Otherwise, you will end the relationship.”

She was also asked if it’s okay that their partner keeps on liking other girls’ Instagram posts. Personally, Bea said she does not get jealous when her boyfriend Dominic Roque does so.

“Si Dom, madalas siyang nagla-like ng mga picture ng friends niya na babae or kahit mga babae na ‘di niya friends okay lang. He appreciates beauty and I trust him so I know he won’t do anything stupid.”

However, she also reminded her viewers that what they feel is okay: “Why don’t you ask your boyfriend about it? If it affects you, definitely, it’s valid. Pag-usapan niyo ng boyfriend mo.”

The actress said she and Dom are also open about having crushes on other people.

According to Bea, what hurts her is when Dom fails to give her the attention she needs. But at the same time, both of them also make sure they respect each other’s individuality.

“Hindi ako selosa tungkol sa ibang tao, sa mga babae, pero nagseselos ako kapag nagbibigay siya ng atensyon sa iba na mas madalas kesa sa’kin -- sa mga kaibigan, gadgets niya, sa drone, sa gaming.”

Bea and Dominic marked their first anniversary as a couple last January. —LBG, GMA News